All these GUYS thinks SHE WANTS .. How can I CHANGE Her!?

Your friend is in mega-denial; she is suffering a disconnect between her look/behavior and others' perception of it. Now: she has the right to dress, act, whatever, in any way she wants...but if she's too dumb to make the connection between her actions and the results they bring, than she probably needs more help than you can give her. But you're a good friend for trying.